something EXCITING~

got it from a blog,
i find it quite intresting yet can be true?
hehe..
go figure!
enjoy eh...


Ok guys, LISTEN.
There are many girls on earth, of different shapes,
sizes, of different characters and ways. Basically, all girls are
different. However, in terms of preference, there are many things
they like that are the same. So, you need to know what to do and
what to avoid.
Here's a list:

1. Ego!
Oh my god! Guys, I know sometimes, you feel the need to express
your manly side and you want to put your foot down. If you need to do
it, please do it without the ego! If you're wrong, mengaku je lah! You
know how it is: girls usually tend to be right. But even if we are not,
there's still no need to be so insensitive about it. And yea, cakap lah
sorry kalau dah buat salah tu. Jangan nak step menyotong je, abih
dah gitu, tunggu pompuan minta maaf lagik! No, no, no... tak serrr ah
gitu.

2. Seeking Attention.
Sometimes, I just don't get why some guys love to do this; carik
attention to attract girls. Kenape ah? Nanti, for no reason, kat
tengah-tengah dunia, ade je lah budak-budak memekak lah, lari-lari lah,
ketawa terbahak-bahak lah. EH! Ape ni???? Lari tau pompuan!
Girls do not like it when you go out of your way to try to get their
attention! Notice how the quiet guy always gets the chicks in the
movies? Same thing! So, if you have been doing this, STOP! If not,
well, good for you, but hey... that doesn't mean you should just keep a
distance from everyone. If you are that kind who just loves to show
everyone a good time, carry on!

3. Bragging.
This is definitely the ultimatum. Banyak-banyak bende, ni lah yang
paling rabaaaak! Lelaki yang suke brag! Fuyo! "Aku hot, aku kaya,
every girl wants me, aku dream guy semua perempuan kat dunia ni!"
Waaaa! Ok ah, maybe tak gitu nye over ah, but close enough. Eh,
boleh meluat tau dengar orang bebual macam ni! If you have it, ok,
fine. Tapi takmo lah over sangat kan . Bebuallah pasal kumbang
terbang ke, ikan berenang ke, anything ah! Just don't get too caught
up with yourself!

4. Be Unconventional.
"Ape maksud kau 'be unconventional'?" Ok, what I mean is, do things
that are out of the ordinary. For example, selalunye lelaki belikan
sejambak bunga untuk girlfriend, awak lak jangan belikan rose,
belikan kereta ke...haha! Ok...tak macam gitu sekali lah...but you get
my drift. Girls like to expect the unexpected. Diorang kate je: "Oh!
Nevermind...I like anything you do for me..." tapi dalam hati,
"Alamak! Jangan common sangat ah, I want something lain daripada
lain!" This way, they can go on and tell all their friends how
wonderful their boyfriends or dates are. And so, confirm diorang
takkan bosan nye.

5. Rimas!!!
Kawan aku punye favourite word! This word is to describe guys
yang terlalu clingy sangat! Macam suka nah membontot mane-mane
girlfriend nak pergi. Abih nanti tanye berpuloh soalan tak tentu pasal;
nak pergi mane lah, dengan sape lah, untuk ape lah, pukol brape
lah...Ooh! Rimas!!! Eh...tak trust girlfriend ke?? Bagi lah dier sikit
freedom nak bergaul, to have fun with friends, to go out...janganlah
nak ikot aje! Learn to trust, that's the key.

6. Janganlah Romeo Sangat.
Romeo: EMO!!! Eh! Nonsense lah...sikit-sikit sedih, nak sendiri-sendiri,
menangis, nak bunuh diri lah, ape ni?! Dah kene sampok ke??
Girls tak suke guys emotional sangat laa...tak serr ah gitu! They need
protection, not give any! Ade time untuk ber-romantic, ade time for
emo, ade time for fun and play! So, chill bro, suck it in and move on!

7. Please Know Where To Go On A Date (and don't be so cheap!)
"You nak gi mane? You nak makan mane? You nak tengok cerite ape?"
Boring ah gini! Korang kan lelaki! Memang nak kene tau mane
nak pergi sume! These days, guys are going like, 'oh, I wanna find a
girl who knows where to go and what to do on dates...blah blah blah...'
Oh! Skarang dah pandai eh! Tolak-tolak kerje pat perempuan! Eh...
gentleman ah sikit...girls don't wanna have to stress up and figure out
where to go on dates...it's bad enough they always have to try and
look their best so you guys don't take one look at them and run! Give
them a break ok! And oh yea, please jangan kedekot sangat boleh
tak! Don't go asking a girl out and then making her pay half of it the
next day! If you're on a tight budget, then bring her to a place you
can afford. Don't assume she's gonna pay half, cause for god's sakes,
it's a date! Unless of course, she's totally cool about paying, then bro,
you got yourself quite a catch! *wink wink*

8. Don't Comment On 'Assets' On First Dates!
This is an absolute turn-off! Kenape mesti macam chi-ko-pek gitu ah,
comment pasal perempuan nye tu sume?!?! Takde lain lagik yang nak
cakap ke? Nak kene sepak, terajang, tumbok, tendang, pukol, bantai
eh? My god, guys, please, you don't want to appear to the girl you're
going out with as a pervert, right? If you feel the need to compliment
her on something, talk about her hair or how pretty she looks in her
new dress, or something like that lah...

9.Develop A Sense of Humour (if you dun have one.)
Girls like it funny! They wanna laugh and joke on dates. Jangan lah
serious sangat baaang...If you are naturally not a very funny person,
no worries! Pat Popular bookstore banyak buku Jokes and Riddles.
They might not help much, but hey! At least you tried. And maybe if
you tell the girl you pergi Popular Bookstore to carik buku to learn to
be funny, chances are, she'll probably laugh her head off
because of that.

10. Keep your hands to yourselves, until further notice
Jangan nak carik opportunity je k! Girls tend to be a little guarded
when they go out on dates with guys they barely know. So don't
pandai-pandai want to touch them here lah, there lah! Tapi, if you
guys dah ok, dah mesra boleh chill together-gether...haah...tu korang
nye pasal nak buat ape!


Well girls, I'm sure there are those of you who might need help as
well. Maybe you could use some of these tips.


1. Be Opinionated
Guys like it when you've got your own things to say. Jangan lah
orang tanye question, you just angguk-angguk je! Compete with them,
make them see that you have your own opinions about the subject
you guys are talking on. Tapi jangan lah controlling sangat. If you
don't agree with what he is saying, politely state your view and move
on to talk about other things. Kalau dier lak yang tak puas hati, abih
nak cari pasal, just leave.

2. Don't Appear Too Easy
As much as guys love to see sexy girls, they would prefer if YOU (the
girl they are seeing) do not dress too over. This makes them see you
as different from all those sexy-dressing girls on the streets. Guys
like individuality, show them some.

3. TALK!
TALK, GIRLS, TALK! Apparently, guys like girls who know how to talk!
Ask him questions. Answer his questions with witty comments! Don't
be too conscious of what you say or do. Keep him in suspense.
Message him in the middle of the night and surprise him with things
about you he didn't know about. Just be open! Think unique!

4. They Know You're Hot (so you don't have to keep talking about it.)
Why dwell on something they already know?? Kalau you have nothing
to say to him except to tell him constantly that you are so hot and
every guy wants you, then maybe Tip #3 isn't really for you. Find
other topics. Cakap lah pasal kupu-kupu terbang ke, arnab lompat
-lompat ke (see under the [GUY] section and read Tip #3)

5. Dah Melayu Tu, Buat Cara Melayu Lah
Believe it or not, guys hate it when perempuan Melayu step macam
Orang Putih. No offence to chicks out there who were brought up by
in an American surrounding and have somehow developed their
accent. Those of you girls who unfortunately did not get to
experience such pleasure, well, I think you should just quit acting like
a Mat Saleh and be comfortable with who you really are. Guys are
more comfortable opening up to girls who are comfortable with their
own selves.

6. Pakai Baju Takmo Over Sangat
Guys get a little turned off when they see their date dress too overly,
macam tak kene tempat ah. Simplicity is key. Unless you are dating
some Tycoon and you nak kene dress nicely all the time, then tu lain
cerite ah. But for those who likes to overdress or wear clothes that
are too revealing, I think u have to be careful, your date might just
not like what he sees.

7. Show That You Are Independent
Guys like to have the feeling that they are needed, for protection and
other stuff. But they can only stand so much. Kalau you want him to
stay by you, tunjuk dier yang you ni boleh jaga diri even without him
around. Jangan selalu nakkan dier buatkan bende for you je. Once in
a while, you have to stand on your own two feet and tell him that you
can carry the shopping bags on your own. *unless of course they are
very, very, very heavy lah.*

8. Loosen Up, Laugh A Little, Joke A Little
Eh, girls! Jangan lah serious sangat! Guys like to see the 'sotong' side
of you. He wants to see you relaxed and completely unconscious of
your surroundings. Tell him funny past experiences, things that will
make him laugh. Joke with him. Play games. Make sure he stays
interested.

9. Girls, If You Have A Boyfriend, Don't Go On Dates With Other
Guys.
I know lah, ni sume, sape yang tak tau kan. But seriously, ade jugak
wanita-wanita yang keluar ngan lelaki lain eventhough they have
boyfriends. Kenape? Buat ape? Kalau ye pon, jangan lah tipu the guy,
kesian that guy. He tak tentu pasal, tak tau lak you are attached,
kene maki hamon dengan your boyfriend. Ish ish ish.

10. Nak Merajok Pon Ade Batasan Lah
Merajok skali. Cute.
Merajok dua kali. Boleh accept.
Merajok tiga kali. Boleh blah!
Haah! Girls you don't wanna get into a situation where the guy thinks
you are such a Merajok Queen, sikit-sikit nye pasal nak merajok!
If he says or do something wrong, stop him immediately and tell him
how you feel. If you wait even a little while longer, you are definitely
going to end up merajok-ing. Believe me!


all the above was taken from a blog. thanks to the owner of the blog!
the owner of the blog is a guy. hehe..!